“Householders, if wife and husband want to see each other in both this life and the next, they should be equals in faith, ethics, generosity, and wisdom.
When both are faithful and bountiful, disciplined, living righteously, then wife and husband say nice things to each other.
Their needs are amply satisfied, so they live at ease. Their enemies are downhearted, when both are equal in ethics.
Having practiced the teaching here, both equal in precepts and observances, they delight in the heavenly realm, enjoying all the pleasures they desire.”
Numbered Discourses 4.56 6. Overflowing Merit Equality (2nd)
“Mendicants, if wife and husband want to see each other in both this life and the next, they should be equals in faith, ethics, generosity, and wisdom. …”
Numbered Discourses 4.57 6. Overflowing Merit Suppavāsā