‘They abused me, they hit me! They beat me, they robbed me!’ For those who bear no such grudge, hatred is laid to rest. For never is hatred laid to rest by hate, it’s laid to rest by love: this is an ancient teaching. When others do not understand, let us, who do understand this, restrain ourselves in this regard; for that is how conflicts are laid to rest. Breakers of bones and takers of life, thieves of cattle, horses, wealth, those who plunder the nation: even they can come together, so why can’t you? If you find an alert companion, an attentive friend to live happily together, then, overcoming all adversities, wander with them, joyful and mindful. If you find no alert companion, no attentive friend to live happily together, then, like a king who flees his conquered realm, wander alone like a tusker in the wilds. It’s better to wander alone, there’s no fellowship with fools. Wander alone and do no wrong, at ease like a tusker in the wilds.”